Survival Instincts

Enneagram 4 Social

Shame/Honour, the Critical Commentator
This subtype is a sponge for the social energy around them. If tension arises in their social group, they’re likely to feel guilty even when it’s not their fault.
 
Their heightened awareness of social dynamics makes them very observant, but also likely to compare themselves to others in an unfavourable light. Sometimes, they wish they could skip social settings altogether to avoid the emotional exhaustion, but their fear of missing out usually wins over.
 
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Enneagram 4 Self Preservation

Dauntlessness, The Creative Individualist
A Creative Individualist is caught in a balancing act between their unconventional personal goals and the forms of material security which would bring them greater safety.
 
Their yearning to take the artistic and original route is strong, causing them to spend much of their time tossing up the risk of instability with the reward of following their dreams. This high tension causes them to develop an apathetic outward outlook to mask their internal frustrations.
 
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Prestige, The Politician
This subtype is practiced at manicuring their image to make sure they strike the right chords and rise the ranks in their social circle. They make contacts not out of love or friendship, but based on the value a person can offer them.
 
Others look up to them from afar, but lose interest once the shiny exterior wares thin.
 
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Femininity/Masculinity, The Movie Star
This subtype might often be called a ‘people pleaser’. Being admired by those around them is extremely important. They derive a sense of power from their attractiveness to others. With a sharp focus on their femininity or masculinity, they can become distanced from the true essence of their sexuality.
 
The Movie Star finds it difficult to escape the need to perform, even when around those they love.
 
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Enneagram 3 Self Preservation

Security - The Company Person
The Company Person prioritises a sparkling appearance, material possessions, and high-flying lifestyle. They can withstand tough conditions if it brings them the financial rewards they need to feel they have control of their life.
They are usually excellent achievers, but they must be careful that their achievements don’t raise their sights too high. Each success can send this subtype reaching for an ever-moving goalpost at the expense of their health, relationships and other interests.
 
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Enneagram 1 Self Preservation

Worry - Anxiety
This subtype perceives their self worth in terms of their abilities. They are diligent and hardworking, but because of their high standards they often feel that they are falling short of their own expectations.
This simmering pressure causes high levels of anxiety, which The Pioneer tries to mediate through endless preparation. Despite their inner turmoil, they keep their emotions tightly guarded and as a result might seem withdrawn.
 
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Non Adaptability - Social Reformer
Social Reformers feel comfortable when they abide by a rigid set of rules, and they expect others to do the same. They are often principled and impressive, but also inflexible. Change can be really difficult for this subtype, as they have to carve out a new set of rules to adhere to.
Their confidence in their beliefs and methods may cause them to feel that they have a responsibility to guide others. In doing so, they must take care to avoid condescension, since they might secretly look down on those who see things differently.
 
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Zeal - Jealous
This subtype is most concerned with converting others to their way of thinking and behaving. This is born from an underlying insecurity that others are more ‘free’ and in touch with their self-expression than they are.
The Evangelist’s self-worth is bolstered by their ability to hold a partner’s attention. This comes with a strength in being present and attentive. However, their attentiveness can boil over into controlling behaviour if they perceive their partner’s attention slipping.
 
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Enneagram 2 Self Preservation

Privilege - The Nurturer
This subtype feels most satisfied when they are giving out attention, care and affection to others. They’re great at making those around them feel special. However, they are not always selective about who receives their support.
This can lead The Nurturer to feel aggrieved when others do not reciprocate to the same degree, which can result in an entitled or disingenuous attitude.
 
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Ambition - The Ambassador
The Ambassador uses social approval as a means to measure their success. They are great at making contacts using a warm and empathetic demeanour. This makes them politically powerful at work, at community events, or in a PTA.
They do genuinely enjoy interacting with their sprawling social network, but they may sometimes struggle to move beyond a superficial connection with those around them.
 
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